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User:udswinger (488768)
This is MY LIFE
if ya don't like it...keep on movin
Name:Toby
Website:Toby's My Space link
Location:Newark, Delaware, United States
Birthdate:06-22
Bio:
This is my journal of my life, what is said within these pages, STAYS WITHIN THESE PAGES! To be able to see my words you must reply to my last post and be added as a friend. Other wise you'll just see pulic posts.

I'm a very openminded person, and a U of D senior *in spirit* for the present time and moment. I shall get back to classes soon enough till then, I work at the Family Thrift store in newport and am an Assistant Manager/Supervisor I work my ass off i tell you..never a dull moment there...I am single but still living with my current ex. we're trying to work on keeping our friendship so everythings all sorts of craziness right now...


Yes I AM GAY! I'm a non identified female bodied person! I feel that I am neither male nor female. I am just me, a person within a society that tries to shove everyone elses but my own, beliefs, down my throat!!! We have our own minds and should be able to make our OWN DECISIONS on who WE ARE!!! Your belief/opinion in/of your self is the most important thing(s) ever, NO ONE ELSES!!! So don't be trying to educate me because I know who I am and I am Toby, a person that does not use pronouns whatsoever, and is ever changing.

Some people have known me as: amber, Swinger, Swinga, Darin, DT, and who knows what else. But my name as of August 2004, is Toby!

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"In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence
of our friends."
- Martin Luther King Jr. (1929-1968)


SO FYI Supposedly 814 is STILL OPEN...i dont know if this is totally true...so if you're curious go by and see...whatever in my eyes pretty hurt by this...but all in time I am the Drag Prince of DE 2006 can't disappear gotta find a way to go on. ya know...

2006 hasn't been our year but here's a lil remembrance on a few loved one's we've lost...

Rest in Peace
Lady Ashleigh Whitney Starr Adams

February 1996 to August 24th 2006
I miss you girl!
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Rest in Peace
Kathrine Patricia Greene
January 13th, 1955 to
September 27th, 2006
*it is so quiet now...creepy*

you gals shall be deeply missed.


I also have the following journals
I'm the mod of these two comm:
QUEER COMMUNITY OF DE!
Delaware's Gay Community...community on lj
and then my own journals:
My Deadjournal
My poem lj

I have a 4 year old Godson Jaime Rodriguez III
this is jaime and myself
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and 4 yr. old nephew Jacob Micheal Adams!!!! oooo and I have an almost 1 yr old neice but no pic's yet.

I was a member of the the LGBTQSA group on campus called...HAVEN CLICK HERE! I held office as the Secretary for the Fall '03-Spr '04 academic year as well as the co-chair of the Q series and the Event Coordinator of Transgender Awareness Week 2004.

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A few pictures of me now:


I've lost 115 pounds (down to a size 34 in mens pants*down from a 44-46)here are some random pic's ;-)
my dad and I
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in drag at 814 with my crown...
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random ones
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my best friend [info]biamericangrl and myself
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andi, jaime, and moi
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hottness
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me two and a half yrs. old


UD vs UMASS game away at UMASS, sophmore year I believe.

Here's a picture of me on the RIGHT! and [info]fearnloathing
Katie (l) and me (r)

my first tatoo on my back between my shoulder blades...


Destiny is not a matter of chance,
it is a matter of choice.
It is not a thing to be waited for,
but a thing to be acheived."
-William Jennings Bryan


I absolutely LOVE SMILIE FACES....hehe..


"A building gets torched. All that is left is ashes. I used to think that was true about everything: families, friends, feelings. But now I know that sometimes, if love proves real...if two people were meant to be together...nothing can tear them apart.

If the people we love are stolen from us, the way to have them live on is to never stop loving them. Buildings burn. People die. But real love lives forever."

- The Crow.


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I love quotes:

I LOVE ANI! I LOVE CHRISTIN: for sending this to me! and here's why...best quote ever...tee hee hee...
"guess there's something wrong with me
guess i don't fit in
no one wants to touch it
no one knows where to begin
i've got more than one membership
to more than one club
and i owe my life
to the people that i love...
some days the line i walk
turns out to be straight
other days the line tends to
deviate
i've got no criteria for sex or race
i just want to hear your voice
i just want to see your face"
-Ani De Franco



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updated as of April 6th 2007
Memories:11 entries
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Friends:
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Communities20:americanlesbian, birdss, birls, birls2, butch2butch, delawhere, drag_kings, dragkingfags, dyke_androgyny, gay_de, genderqueer, im_a_drag_king, lesbian, lesbian_icons, openmindeddorks, queers_of_de, transnews, u_of_d, womenlovers, wrongbathroom
Feeds1:dailyclips
Mutual Friends:73: 1boigamewhore, 2greyrooms, _applescruffs_, _paperwings_, _sadez_, aecyko, anorexicvenus, beautiful_trash, beholdalady06, biamericangrl, bippin78, brand_new4yew, capricorn88, cow_hat, cupidboi87, daryltuba, dazeydeadfaerie, deloreancowboy, disorder33, dont__break, dorky_freak, downandup, drdeath, emo_dyke, emoasatilly, emokari, eternallyadream, evilcb, fallnintoyou, fearnloathing, gradualmomentum, heyfoureyes, ieatredplaydoh, invisibletears, jaikob, jdlinx, jonesingjay, katygreeneyes, killthief, kinky_dorito, labrat0017, leahoward, levi, little_tyke26, maccathekid, madeofthis, madhatter_kay, mawashigeri, maxxx_, mcpuggington, mercurykitty, missymossop, myfinalgoodbye, nervelush, notyourstar16, onetruegirl, paperbackmac, peanutbuttacups, perro_de_tv, rainbowdyke5799, riiaa, rivkadevorah, seaofclouds21, seaturtlemoment, shadow0kelly, shay_inlove, starainbow15, strummer_boi, sukisukisuki22, swallothemoon, tempusfrangit, wolfsanespider, xbanana_freakx
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